EQDKP is awful. Once I realized how awful I started looking for alternatives.
I found, and enjoy:
Immortality's Raid Management Suite. It uses the standardized EQDKP output from addon strings, and does all kinds of nice other stuff. So it might even be compatible with this (apparently superior) addon for exporting. Of course it also has a sensible "copy paste" option for just using something like raid attendance to grab the list of who is here, then typing the name of the items into blanks if you prefer.
There's a project ongoing to mount it on SMF forums if you prefer them to phpbb. If you're reasonably competent with sql/php you could easily migrate it to a different forum integration.
It's worlds better in terms of sql table layout than eqdkp.
Current maintainer while Hulex (the creator) is on hiatus is machus/zai - his site is at:
http://zai.stuff.googlepages.com/rms-updates
It has far too many features for me to list, but the big ones are smooth integration from game to web, sensible backups, good sql back end, coherent handling of alts/mains, very customizable for your prefered methods of dealing with rgp and/or incentives/floors/ceilings etc.