I think you will find that most Arcane raiding specs have at least some of the things you mentioned. Specifically, any ICC raiding Arcane mage should take Magic Attunement. The extra 6 yards is way too valuable within ICC (even non-heroic) fights. Having 36 yards allows you to spread out much easier on fights that require that (LDW, PP, Princes, BQL, Saurfang, LK) and allows for less or no movement when target switching (LDW, Saurfang, Princes, PP, Dreamwalker, LK). When you consider heroic modes, movement and spreading out becomes even more necessary on those and additional fights so it becomes even better.

Most Arcane specs would also take Frost Warding over Ice Shards as well. Neither talent is going to be particularly valuable, so its not a big deal either way, but the reasoning for that is that Ice Shards is only useful on trash (you don't cast Blizzard on a boss fight, except for a little on Dreamwalker) while there are several fights that you can make use of wards.

Slow is generally not taken for raiding because its not needed and usually a waste of a GCD. All tanks apply a slowing effect which activates TTW, so its not needed for that, and the times when an Arcane mage needs to slow an add is rare. If the mage primarily runs 10 mans or uses Arcane for 10 mans then it may be useful for fights like Saurfang depending on your raid comp, but there are not many times it would be needed.

Assuming you take all the standard Arcane raiding talents (I'm including Magic Attunement in that), then you would end up with a 55/3/11 spec and have 2 additional points to play with.

Your options are the talents you mentioned: Arc Stability, Student of the Mind, Magic Absorption, or even Slow (if you really need it).

The reason you don't find many people with Arc Stability is because pushback is limited or non-existent on most ICC fights. You'll find it from a few boss abilities (LM's Bonestorm, LDW's frostbolts, LK's infest cast or during transitions on LK, etc) but its infrequent. Also, there is no difference in the protection you'd get from 1 point or 2 points in Arc stability, you would need 3 points to get 100% protection (with a Pally's Imp Conc Aura), or 4 points (with a non-imp Conc Aura). That's just too many points invested to be worth it for most people unless some specific situation like you were part of a 10 man group where you were in charge of orbs during LK's transition and were struggling with it. Also remember that Icy Veins grants you 100% pushback protection while its active, so if there was a particular part of a fight that you were that concerned about you could use IV there.

Technically, of the options available for those last 2 points, Student of the Mind is the only dps talent, so if you were purely considered with min/maxing your dps alone then you'd put them there. However, the gains from SotM are really quite small. For example, take a look at your mage's current spirit. Take 7% of that from 2 points in SotM. Then take that spirit and multiply it by 70% (which is how much of your spirit gets converted to crit rating through 2T9 bonus with the Molten Armor glyph), and finally convert that rating to actual crit %. You're going to have a pretty small number at this point.

Magic Absorption is the talent that you'll find many mages put those last 2 points. While resistances are not always intuitively understood by everyone, the last time I saw the math 2 points in this talent comes out to roughly 10% less magic damage taken. If you consider ICC fights, quite a few of them involve magic damage, much of it unavoidable. Particularly some of the harder fights (your healers will thank you during Infest if you are working on the LK). Its value grows even more in heroic fights where more damage is taken and your healers have a lot to handle. No matter if you are on normal or heroic, if you are working on ICC its likely that your current progression would be made a little easier on the healers by taking Magic Absorption. Its not a direct dps talent, but anything that helps your healers is generally good, and I know its kept me alive when I would have died on several occasions. No mage would take this over a big dps increase, but given the options for those 2 points its an easy choice.

Yes to the glyphs. I don't think the MA glyph is really optional, as there aren't any good solutions. A while back a couple people on the WoW forums tested possibly going with the AP glyph while using Mage Armor but while interesting its just not as good as using MA. Those minor glyphs are what I use; the Fire/Frost ward ones are the only minor glyphs that have much of an effect on raiding (albeit a small one), and of course the slow fall one makes life so much simpler.

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