Finally came up with a solution to the problem I was having with incorporating totems and my cooldowns somewhere in my UI. Most UI's I see generally have their cooldowns showing by either having their action bars with cooldowns on them or just 1 bar with spells that actually have cooldowns on them.
For probably 2 years though all of my action bars have been hidden and I've always used coolDown to watch cooldowns, I don't think any mod of mine lasted as long as coolDown but I finally had to let go of it for a cooldown mod with more(easier) customizability.
OOC:
Raid(Grid frames are scaled differently in my 25 man profile):
Basically now my cooldowns have 3 categories that way they all take up about the same amount of space as my totems. Like I said I'm pretty happy with it, unfortunately the boxes that hold totems and cooldowns still appear even if none are up as I'm pretty much clueless how to parent to a frame with eePanels when "/print GetMouseFocus():GetName()" doesn't yield anything over any related frames(all I can get is "WorldFrame over any part of my totem timer or cooldown mod

). Always open to suggestions.