Here's what I've settled on, with inspiration mainly taken from this thread:
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ClearFont2 (using the font Teen throughout the interface)
Quartz (not on pictured character)
My UI, still ripped off from Caith. When outside of a raid, the Violation (left) and Omen (right) bars vanish and the chat frames resize themselves to occupy the entire eePanel. I want to rework everything but I haven't found anything as aesthetically pleasing and functional as Chatbox - buttons/unit frames - Chatbox.
Fubar (a few of them)
Pitbull2.0 (yeah right I'm not rewriting 50 fucking dogtags)
Violation (edited the lua to change font/size/border/got rid of header shit)
Some bar mod
This is my new UI setup after 2.4. Totally laid out from scratch, not heavily inspired by anything in particular, just where I like to see things on my screen. Just got Parrot working again, so the combat text isn't set in a place where I think it's optimal just yet. Lot of standard stuff from wowace. Chatter for chat interface, pitbull for unitframes, grid for raid frames, gloss texture on all bars, ABF font all around. Screenies are both in a raid. One is in combat, one is ooc. When I'm solo, the spot where grid is just turns into a big blank box.
Doing my own little remake of Sylvara's UI, thankyou to him/her for some great inspiration. Quite a work in progress still, but a side UI isn't something I have ever really tried before, so it might take me a little while to get things right.
Addon list is the same as Sylvara's on page 4. Still a few things I want to add, damage meters, neon chat, a loot mod. Sylvara if you could please get a hold of me on pm I would really like to ask you some questions about your font and some dogtags. Thank you.
Since i got a number of PMz for an upload for my UI here it is