We aren't a helpdesk. We aren't here to review people MT/OT and tell them how to improve. You really should have just reported this post instead of answering it. Your suggestion of HoS is pretty much just common sense and threat management isn't anything new.
Begging a Hand of Salvation off a nice paladin is about your only option. Sttomp, at least, has very low hit and expertise, which will tend toward irregular initial threat. I've basically come to consider dealing with threat my 2nd "resource" to manage.