We don't do "Should I use X or Y / pick my gear for me posts" here, they are considered hand-holding. Also, when you do post here please use paragraph form instead of hitting enter after every sentence. In answer to you question of how you go about choosing: http://www.femaledwarf.com/
I had a quick question, the answer to which I can't seem to find anywhere else on the forums.
Which of the following 2 weapons is better (both same ilvl)