P.S. Sorry for mistakes, English is not my first language.
Grats on logging out in PVP gear and for not allowing private messages (I tried to PM first).
I organize my Stats as the following.... Defense cap > Avoidance > Stamina > Hit cap> Expertise cap > Strength. I like my HP pool to be above 42k with buffs to tank 25man bosses. Although anyone will tell you that you go for what suits your tanking needs :-). I often eat food to reach Hit cap.