Fair warning, but you cannot use GMs as credible sources of information. It's been proven time and time again in the past.
Also work on your grammar, you really should be capitalizing things and not using "lol."
Talked to a GM tonight while he was replacing my wand and asked him if he could confirm whether reign of unliving stacks with its heroic version. He said by speculation and looking around that he believed the unique means that you can only equip one of the two.