I play my resto shaman in 3v3 currently and we've recently hit 2105 in the Nightfall group.
Mage/warlock is the team I'm running with, and for this team or any team that was a considerable amount of peels (Mage/warlock arguably being the best what with fears, shadowfury, poly, deepfreeze, frost nova etc.) it would most likely be best if you stacked yourself to the resilience soft cap (1414.5).
I'm still in 3 pieces furious so, my gear is certainly into question, but I've managed to hit 1369 resilience with the 2 set bonuses as well as 1 wrathful piece, relentless with full wrathful off pieces. However, once I'm geared in full Wrathful I have managed to get around a 150 something increase on resilience, allowing the soft cap as well as enabling you to roll into 4/5 resto and 1/5 crit, getting the 4 set bonus with 11.5 cd on grounding totem and a bit of extra spell power. Assuming, of course, full wrathful and 2200 spellpower weapon.
I gem mostly for resilience and spell penetration to hit me to 110 at least and honestly I've mostly been using
Alesya as a guideline for stats and talent points etc.
From what I know, if there's one thing that will save you, it's grounding totem and stoneclaw. Almost try keeping that stuff on cooldown if you're being focused. Essentially adding 4k non-dispelable shield to you each time and a missed spell. It's just wonderful for your survival.
Windshear and grounding totem alone can pretty much lock down an enemy caster almost 60% of the time. Use your grounding for those really messy spells like Chaosbolt, frostbolt shatter and other such pain. Just a note, if there's an arcane mage, DON'T use it on arcane missiles. It will only absorb 1 or 2 bolts and the rest hit their target.
However, this being said, don't let anyone die either. Focus or mouseovers work really well in arena, so use them to your advantage.
It's early in the season and it really looks like shamans are being one of the most powerful healers this time around, which is a nice step up from previous seasons.